to the best club you never intended to join

An unexpected NPE discovery can trigger the kind of ‘big T’ trauma that shakes a person’s sense of self and identity. Our community is here so you don’t have to face it alone—offering healing, hope, and connection.

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Our Admission Process

With nearly 16,000 members, we take privacy seriously—using a vetted, secure process to welcome new NPEs into our Facebook groups.

START HERE → The NPE Gateway Facebook Group. This is our private intake group—also called “the Gateway.”

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ANSWER A FEW SCREENING QUESTIONS This helps us understand your situation and direct you to the most relevant support group.

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WAIT FOR ADMIN REVIEW → One of our trained admins will review your request and guide you into our supportive and safe community space.

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REST ASSURED → Our #1 rule is, “What’s shared in the group stays in the group!”

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